“Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible.” Carl Jung, Memories Dreams and Reflections, 1963 You might see someone every day-a partner arrives home every evening, a child may spend all […]
“Speech has power. Words do not fade. What starts out as a sound, ends in a deed.” Abraham Joshua Heschel, 1962, On Improving Catholic-Jewish Relations We mistakenly reveal our true internal feelings. Maybe this theory is true some of the time and maybe sometimes we just simply misspeak. It does however put an important emphasis […]
What if things really are as desperate as we think? With no silver lining in sight, we must simply endure. With quotes from Seneca, Virgil & more. In recent times, self-care has become a popular phrase endorsed by many in the media. How helpful is the advice being offered? With quotes from Wordsworth, Eliot & […]
So, there has been a change of plan. The challenge presented to us time and time again, is to maintain balance. With quotes from Longfellow, Aurelius & more. In The Discourses, Epictetus discusses the two potential sides to resolution; a virtue or an illness. Are we willing to change our minds to be closer to […]
In his 2004 paper, George A. Bonanno looks at resilience and how many professionals dismiss or underestimate it. He asks- does everyone need help? The theory practised throughout history of ‘Memento Mori’- Remember Death. Do we still have a relationship with our own mortality? Quotes from Seneca, Tolstoy & more. Friedrich Nietzsche said that the […]
‘A proverb is a short sentence based on long experience’, so said Miguel de Cervantes. This week’s proverb: ‘Good fences make good neighbours.’ ‘A proverb is a short sentence based on long experience’, so said Miguel de Cervantes. This week’s proverb: ‘Do right and fear no man.’ Fortitude is one of the cardinal virtues that […]
Step outside, reluctant and heavy with the weight of worry. Take a breath and begin to put one foot in front of the other. The gravel crunch’s underfoot and we watch our feet in action. We pass by the hedging, through the gateway and make a turn to our left, all without taking our eyes […]
We rarely engage with gratitude, failing to see how much worse things could get. Henry Ward Beecher, G.K. Chesterton and Charles Dickens. Art by M. Raimondi Jane Austen in 1814 said; “We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be”. Instead of believing that […]
Spanish novelist Miguel de Cervantes (1547-1616) is credited with saying that ‘a proverb is a short sentence based on long experience’. Proverbs are often centuries old, providing us with global wisdom’s that have remained relevant throughout time. “The best of men are but men at best.” In 1680, John Aubrey referred to this proverb in […]
“There is no smooth road into the future: but we go round, or scramble over the obstacles. We’ve got to live, no matter how many skies have fallen.” D.H. Lawrence, 1928, Lady Chatterley’s Lover In this paper he poses a question we rarely hear or consider in today’s environment- does everyone need help? In recent […]
In his 2004 paper, George A. Bonanno looks at resilience and how many professionals dismiss or underestimate it. He asks- does everyone need help? Are the cynics of the world bold realisers of truth? Or do they actually just lack the real courage it takes to have hope? With quotes from Wilde & more. If […]
I am, like many people in the world I think, feeling significantly displaced. Although a characteristic often associated with the downtrodden, humility is in fact a gift granted to those willing to keep their eyes open to blinding light. ‘A proverb is a short sentence based on long experience’, so said Miguel de Cervantes. This […]
“The instruction we find in books is like fire. We fetch it from our neighbours, kindle it at home, communicate it to others, and it becomes the property of all.” Voltaire (1694 – 1778), attributed, Best Thoughts of Best Thinkers Carl Spitzweg, 1851, The Bookworm They would choose to sit and read a book over […]
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I am, like many people in the world I think, feeling significantly displaced. Although a characteristic often associated with the downtrodden, humility is in fact a gift granted to those willing to keep their eyes open to blinding light. Instead of the punishing thought process, perhaps we can do better. The final step being, we […]